To communicate well with other people, you must learn to speak well, right?
Yes, but speaking isn’t everything. Some experts say only 30 percent of communication comes from
talking.
ffxi gilWhen you have to meet someone from a different culture, be prepared. Do you know what kind of gestures
and customs are proper? If you understand cultural differences, you’ll be a better communicator─even
before you open your mouth!
maple story mesosIn many Western cultures, men stand up before they are introduced to someone important. Standing up
shows politeness and respect.
But in the East, typical introductions often begin and end with bowing rather than shaking hands.
Sometimes even a small nod of the head is enough.
wow gold Some Westerners visiting Asia misunderstand not shaking
hands as a sign of unfriendliness. Such a mistake could be harmful to the start of a new friendship.
Americans like a firm handshake. But the French prefer a light, short handshake. If you shake a
Frenchman’s
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uncultured.
People in Eastern European countries and some Latino cultures prefer shorter handshakes, too. Hugging
after shaking hands is also a common introduction. Don’t be scared if you meet someone in Brazil and
he gives you a hug. If you misunderstanding this gesture, your friendship may get off on the wrong foot
!
ffxi gilThe proper customs for eye contact vary between cultures, too. Westerners appreciate regular eye
contact during conversations. Although it might seem as they’retired or bored, such behavior is normal
and should not be taken personally.
aion goldIs everything OK?
Everyone around the world knows the “OK” hand gesture, don’t they? Be careful not to pretend to know
too much!
In Spain, parts of South America and Eastern Europe, the OK sign is considered rude. If you go shopping
in Japan, it means you’d like your change in coins instead of bills. In France, making the OK sign
means you think something is worthless.
Even a gesture as common as the OK sign may not be universally understood. Check before you use it or
you may embarrass yourself.